I was reading this blog post, and I saw this quote that I really liked:
“Parents tell their children to make sure they enjoy their life before they get married. Young people want to do their own thing and enjoy life before settling down. They have come to think that settling down and having children will not be enjoyable. On the other hand, God equates having children with joy. Motherhood is associated with joy. (He makes the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise the Lord. Psalm 113:9)
"It is true that there are many unhappy mothers and fathers. I believe this is mostly because of mind attitude. Because society has taught women to think that mothering is an inferior task and careerism is far more important, they feel bogged down with children who interfere with their life choices. They love their children, but they don’t love motherhood. This is the catch! It’s not enough to love our children; we must love motherhood! It is only when we embrace motherhood that we enter into the joy of it and begin to experience the fullness and anointing of motherhood that God intents us to walk in.” ~N. Campbell
I'm not a mother yet and I'm honestly not quite sure how I feel about becoming a mother soon (it mostly freaks me out), but I like the above quote because it reminds me that becoming a mother is what Heavenly Father wants me to do, and he will help me with all my inadequacies. Ever since I started having regular "play-dates" with my niece, Kayla, when she was about 4 years old, I have realized in a very small degree the kind of love mothers must feel for their children. I always felt a little depressed inside when Kayla would go home to her parents. I just loved her so much and missed her sweet presence whenever she left. I know motherhood will not always be sweet and lovey-dovey, but I'm grateful for sweet little kids and the joy they bring to us. Even though at this point I feel really scared to have my own child, I know he will be a blessing to me and Tony and we will love him and learn to become better people through parenthood.
Photos with Kayla (and Rosie!), Summer 2007
5 poops:
I am AMAZED at how much I have learned about myself since becoming a Mommy! It's crazy! Through parenting I have learned more weaknesses about myself than in any other time in my life! Still learning & working on conquering each day! One thing is for sure...you can't do it alone! Other than my incredible husband I think of the Lord as a serious partner in my parenting! Without him I would not make it! You will be an incredible mommy! You will be surprised at how well you will adjust to the role of mommy! when you meet your little baby for the first time you will instantly wonder how in the world you have lived this long without them. It's so magical cuz! I am excited for you to feel that! Speaking of which baby #4 needs the boo! lol Hope all is well! Love you!
April, you will be a wonderful mother. Sure you want to pull your hair out and scream in a pillow sometimes,but the good moments are worth everything. Hope you love it as much as I do, you have a divine purpose. Love Audra
People definitely have expectations about becoming a parent. But you and Tony really seem...I dunno...ready for the experience. It's absolutely fabulous. You really start to understand how Heavenly Father can love you so much. I love my kids. I can't see myself stopping because each one is just so fabulous, and unique, and wonderful. You'll be a great mother. Kayla is lucky to have you, too =) And just like any hard thing Heavenly Father asks us to do, He'll be there to support you, always. It's one of the ways I maintain my sanity =)
All you need to know is this: It is truly the most joyful journey you will EVER embark on. I have felt more joy in the last 15 months than I thought an entire lifetime could bring. Yep, its not easy but you don't need to think about that because it is just a part of life, we are required to do hard things....the refiners fire, if you will. I was freaked out too, but it is so amazing and I am so happy for you to be able to experience it!!
Thanks for all your nice comments, guys! I'm looking forward to becoming a mom... still scared, but looking forward to the joyful parts!
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